THE SPEECH :- ““You ain't gonna believe this, but you used to fit right here. I’d hold you up to say to your mother, “this kid is gonna be the best kid in the world. This kid is gonna be somebody better than anybody I ever knew.” And you grew up good and wonderful. It was great just watching you, every day was like a privilege. Then the time come for you to be your own man and take on the world, and you did. But somewhere along the line, you changed. You stopped being you. You let people stick a finger in your face and tell you you’re no good. And when things got hard, you started looking for something to blame, like a big shadow. Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get it and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done! Now if you know what you’re worth then go out and get what you’re worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody! Cowards do that and that ain’t you! You’re better than that! ““

The world is a very mean and nasty place, don’t expect that life is an easy game to play. Life is a game BUT on a fatal mood, and you are not free to choose whether to play or not. You got into this game with no choice, and it is your decision whether you keep kicking up or get kicked and die. Which way would you choose? In both ways you are going to be kicked, slapped and torture. Would you just keep getting pain standing right where you are? Or at least, as long as in both ways you are going to be hit, why don’t you try to fight back? Maybe you can win. What would you lose as long as you are going to be hit anyway, give it a try. We all have already got into this game, you lose or you win………. YOU CHOOSE



How do you think can we keep moving forward in life?!

Well, don’t worry I won’t talk as the video has said everything haha. Actually it has been really tough to find an inspiring video that could fulfill what you have always expected to find, watch and read here because you deserve more. You are the only motivation that keeps pushing me to write. And as we all want and seek success. I wanted to share with you a video about success in our lives, professional career or even in our relationships. I have come up with one thing that will never let us down. We can never do anything without it, that thing is to “believe” . Just believe in yourself, believe in your goals, believe in your family and believe in people. Just know that we all got the ability to draw our life. We just need the imagination of what kind of life do we want. It is never too late, once you realize what you want, or what is your goal. Just go for it. It is not an easy thing to realize what you want, or what do you want to be in the future. It takes deep thinking to find out who you are, what are you seeking in life. But once you find out, just take the first step on the road to what you want to be. Start the day with a smile, expect the best in everyday. Nobody knows what is going to happen in the upcoming minute. Once you fail, stand up again and continue what you have started. Just believe and have faith in yourself.


What do you think is the fuel of success?! 

We are responsible for everything in our life. We are responsible for our actions, our reactions and our decisions. We are the ones who have decided to be who we are, and who will be in the future. If you want to do something, do it. Whatever it is good or bad, just do it. Because you are free to take your own decisions and you are totally free to decide what do you want. But also you are responsible for your actions and decisions. If you did something good, people will thank you for doing such a good thing. But if you did something bad, people will blame you for doing such a bad thing. And you should blame yourself before people blame you. That is what responsibility is, to admit that you did what you did and it was something wrong. As we are completely free to choose and decide what do we want and responsible for our actions. We are also responsible for the consequences.

By taking our complete responsibilities, that open up the door for creativity. We are free to choose, decide and to do what we believe in or convinced of. And by being free to do everything, that doesn’t mean that we are not responsible for it. It is like a double-edged weapon. You can’t do anything and everything you want in the whole world. Because simply you are responsible for it.

All our previous memory and experiences we were responsible for it. Even if it was useful or not. Whether it was a happy or sad story, they were made by us with our full responsibility. Here is the best thing, we sometimes face the same situation more than once in our life. The best thing to take advantage of any situation we have been through is to rethink about it. We can see if there is any other better way that this situation should have been done. We can see if we were so aggressive, so naïve or even so calm. We can see what is the best action in such situations so that we can implement in the future.

Sometimes we easily blame people for doing some bad things to us, treating us in a bad way. But I guess instead of blaming people for things they have done, we should start thinking of what we have done to them making them act the way they did. If we found out that we didn’t do anything bad to them, and they just have done this for no reason. Them be happy, and forgive them or even discard them from your life “IT IS YOUR DECISION”  . We only blame ourselves for things we did ourselves, because we are responsible for our actions only not responsible for others’ .

Do you agree with taking the complete responsibilities and being judged on its consequences ?!

What kind of person is that, who quit his job for feeding some other people he doesn't know them. Yes !, he is someone value his life and value the life of others. This is what humanity is. Humanity is not only about saying good words to other people, not to behave nicely. But humanity is to feel the others. Help them with all of your heart. Actually this man is the best example for a hero. Heroes shouldn't always be strong or supernatural. People who inspire you and make you feel like you are ashamed of yourself are HEROES. This man knew what is the purpose of life. He found it deep inside him, which is GIVING A HAND TO WHOM IN NEED

Simply how do we expect to be respected whereas we don't respect the very simple definition of humanity which is "respect and caring". Only great people who give without getting. There are so many people in the world don't have food or even water. And in some other countries, there is plenty of wasted food and water. Sharing is the best way to value what you have. We don't care about where are you from, who you are, what do you work. We care about you, cause you are a human being. And you deserve that, IT IS  YOUR RIGHT.

I asked myself a question which is, WHAT MAKES ME HAPPY?! BY GIVING OR GETTING?!..Well by logic , when you get something. That makes you really happy. But if you give someone something?!, That will make you much happier. Then the more you give the much happiness you get. So getting is not the effective way to be happy, BUT giving is the best way to be happy.

If you were him, would you quit your job to help the others?

First of all I couldn't stop laughing once I watched this video so I decided to share it with you guys. Apart from how hilarious Oscar is " the chameleon ". It inspired me to two important issues that really made me think.

                                         
                                       The first one.

It is once we get something in our hands we don't really give it attention. Cause we always need more and it's said that "one bird in hand is better than two in the bush" I guess it's better than getting nothing . Actually if I were "Oscar" I would have eaten that one fly and go get the rest of them LOL.     "Greedy huh" 

                                        The second one.

It is that every character in this video never gives up. They all keep running for what they want and what they need .That inspired me too. Like if every single person of us has a goal in his life or a dream, should really run for it, I guess we all have to stick to our dreams but here is the hardest thing for me .It's that how to know what I want. What are my life dreams ...This is the hard question !

What is your goal or dream in your life ?!

Everyone has a specific band or a singer that really inspire him and feels like every single word of the song he is singing, really describes the way that the fan feels, some people have said that Michael Jackson inspires them, some other said that the beatles does, some others say that new age music really inspires them. 

It doesn't matter who inspires you, what matter is how does he/she inspire you. How do you let them inspire you in the right way. They should be like the fuel to push you forward. Whoever your icon is, make sure that they help you and make the best of him. It doesn't stop at an artist,. Your icon could be an ordinary good man who has got manners and has principles. It doesn't matter how famous he is. What matter is "what does he do" and "why does he inspire you" 

For me, Queen really inspires me their words are like a field of gas that always feel my courage and optimism tank. Whenever I'm up or down, I always find in their words the description of the situation I am in. Happiness, sadness, depression and excitement. Actually they were legend.

Do you have that "someone" who really inspires you?!

Well, I believe that sometimes cartoons speak louder than wisdom movies. It could deliver the message way better than when you try to say it directly. But the message of this cartoon is really amazing. It is really inspiring. It's not just about two octopuses fell in love and trying to save each other. No its deeper than this, as we all see, they are just two small weak creatures. Nobody can say that they can even walk out of this tank, but once one of them was in danger. The other one didn't think about how weak he is, or even he could go out of this tank or not. He just decided to rescue and save his love. It didn't matter to him if he is going to die or not. If he is going to make it or not.

The most important thing for him was to save her, even if he is going to die. The message is to fight for our love, not just to give one once we have a problem and say " it's not working between us". Once we found the love, we should never let it go. Cause true love comes once. And when we lose it, we won't find it again. Cause we won't deserve it again. Just believe in yourself and don't think about the consequences as long as you do the right thing. And not just about love, just fight for what you think it's right, have faith in yourself. Don't think about if you can do it or not. Don't think about if you are going to die or not, just do the right thing. And even if you fail, you will be proud of yourself cause you tried at least.

What will you do with your future?!! This is the first question that comes into our mind when we graduate. The very first thing that we start to think about it seriously is our future. We have been studying for many years and we were being told to do homework, to study hard to succeed. But after graduation, nobody tells us what to do. We just take our own decisions, we make our future.

We definitely face some hard situations that we can't take decisions, but at least we have to try, we are our future, we have to succeed. And I am sure it is really hard to start, but at least we have to try. The most important thing for our future is just to take the first step. We youth are the future of this world. We have to make it better. We all have quite the same goals, the same ambition. Just to live peacefully, help others and respect human beings. We deserve a better world.