Our life is full of difficulties; it’s not the life that you used to watch in cartoons when you were young.  Each one of us has things that makes our life has ups and downs. Let’s all agree on one thing, which is there is no forever happiness and forever sadness. So now we have only option, is to deal with our problems as they are or find solutions for them. Whether you face your problems or learn how to live with them.

You are the only person who is going to lose if you surrounded yourself with sadness and negativity. Don’t believe that you have chosen to live a bad life full of problems and tragedy. Everything has been made for you the way that you can handle it. God knows that you can pass this misfortune

Simply anyway you are going to have problems from time to time. You are going to feel sad and miserable. We all are human and have feelings, and yea sometimes we can’t control our feelings or moods. However, hey, don’t let this control your life. Take your time but then get back on track.

Feeling sad or miserable is not going to affect anything or anybody but YOU. Face it with a smile, you will see the bright side of it.

Think about it again 

You can't change the past. But you still got the opportunity to make the future. Draw it as you want it to be. It is said " Don't cry over spilt milk ".It is like would my tears bring back the milk into the glass?! , of course not. Then why should I waste my time crying and not to think how to fix what's already happened. I know we have emotions, and we can't control it sometimes. It is good to express our emotions, but we shouldn't let it control us. WE SHOULD CONTROL OUR EMOTIONS BEFORE IT CONTROL US.

Don't cry over something already happened, cause it won't make a difference. What happened already happened, but we can decide what happen next. Whether we keep crying OR smile and think of another way and how to fix it. And smile because what happened already happened so it can't be worse. It is already done, we better smile cause it is already done and it can't get worse.

When you try to do something, and fail in doing it. I believe that I won't call it failure. Like failure in what? It wasn't a competition or a match to win or to lose. When you fail in doing something, don't call it failure. It is just you found a new way not to do next time. You knew that you have to try something different, something new. I actually believe that failure is a great thing. Cause the more you fail, the closer you get to what you want. Cause every time you miss, you learn something new and different which is not going to be happened the next time. This is how inventors think. Only the fool people who do not learn from their mistakes. It's not wrong to make a mistake but what is wrong is to do it twice.

Everyone want to be succeed in his life, work and in his relations with the others. And it's a good thing and we all should seek success, it's a great feeling to be the manager of your work. And the richest in your Neighborhood, but wait a second. Don't let your success turn on you and bites you. Don't let your ego attack you. Cause once it did, you won't be able to conquer it.

As long as we get rich, be very successful, and get everything we want. Our ego knocks the door, we will start imaging ourselves as kings who have everything and can get anything we want. In such a situation we should stop thinking for a moment, and decide is that the person who you really want to be. That is not who you really are. When we get a promotion, that makes everybody grace us, be careful, cause once they do this, they just want to get closer to us , cause you are the manager. And you are going to feel that you own them, once we start feeling that you own people here,, you should wake up cause you are getting so arrogant that makes you feel like want to have everything and everyone. Be humble everyone is going to love you for who you really are. Not cause they need something from you therefore they will not use you

The higher you climb the wilder ego you get. So I guess we all have to train our ego not to turn around and bite us.

Of course nobody can expect getting anything without at least to try to change one thing. We all get gloomy and sad cause we don't usually get what we are dreaming of and if we took a glance at what we did, we figure out that we did nothing to get what we want or what we are dreaming of. And even if we did all the things that we have to do, to get what we want, sometimes we don't get it. But this case is not the same. Here we say I did what I have to but maybe it's not the time to get what I want or what I need, and then I cannot blame myself and nobody else can blame me, cause it out of my hand now. I tried hard and did everything I have to do, to get what I need but still didn't get it. "Why" cause maybe it's not the right time to get it, maybe you are not ready yet...But..The most important thing that you gave it a shot, AT LEAST YOU TRIED SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO REGRET NOT GETTING ANYTHING.