Every word we say express the deep meaning of what we really feel. The words we say while happiness is so different than those words while you are sad or depressed. Also the way we say the same word, express what we really feel about it. Death, accident, war, brings a bad and sad feeling into our conscious. BUT, the sentence “ It might have been” is really the worst, as it reflects how frustrated you are. It reflects how weak and how helpless you are which is the worst thing in the world. We could be sad, we could be depressed but we should never be frustrated.

I know sometimes we get this feeling about the is no use, and nothing going to change. Or maybe I can’t do it but never lose hope. And once you try something and you fail, never stop doing it again. As you did it wrong the first time, the next time you would succeed. Sometimes we lose a great opportunity for a good job, a good position but we don’t get it. We should never say “ it might have been great”. Don’t regret anything, for your own good. We don’t know what is good for us, seek great opportunities and do what you should do to get it. Then wait for it. If it can, that would be awesome. If it didn’t that would be happened for our best. Have faith in yourself and keep fighting back the obstacles.

Pretending, the most awful word that ever used. Actually it brings shame and scandal to the people who uses it. Why should you take someone’s else personality or character and use it as it is yours whereas it is not. Why should we lie about things that are not actually in us. If you like something in someone else, something in his personality. Try to improve yourself to be like him, it’s something that we shouldn’t be ashamed of. But what we should be deeply ashamed of is to pretend that you are SOMETHING whereas you are totally SOMETHING ELSE.

Actually what makes any kind of relationship fail and never work out is PRETENDING and LYING to get our partner’s attraction. We don’t realize that sooner or later he/she will know what we really are. Every single lie in the history has its time to be revealed. So why should we start it from the beginning. And once we found out that our partner is pretending or lying, we would quickly break up and end the relationship RIGHT?!. Yes, you would break up with your partner if you found out that he/she is lying or cheating.

If you wanted to be truly loved, NEVER pretend or put a mask that is not originally yours. If you want to change something in your personality, do it. But don’t pretend that you don’t even have it until you get rid of it. We all deserve to be loved for who we really are, for our own personality. Cause sooner or later the makeup you used to wear will flake. And once it does, the people who used to love you will hate you more than they loved you in the past. Nobody is loved by everybody, be who you really are and you will find many people love you for who you are not for being someone else. 

We sometimes mix in the comparison between things. Therefore the comparison doesn't make sense. It is like the comparison between a palm tree and the sea. You can't compare between them, you can't say which one is taller, and which one is wider. Because there is a difference between them. But you can compare a tree to a palm tree. And also you can compare a sea to an ocean. The palm tree is tall, but the sea is wide. So we can't compare between two different things.

So everyone is a genius in his own way, maybe you can't run fast but you are good math. Maybe you can't drive, but you are a genius in vehicle manufacture. Nobody has everything but everybody has one single thing. That very thing, if you found it in the very deep of you, it can totally change your life.

Never let anyone compare you to someone else. Because we all are different, everyone is unique in his own way. If someone told you that you are not as smart as someone else, tell him that you are not as fat as an elephant"lol" .What I'm saying is we can't compare people to each other, cause every single person is different from the other. We can compare between the performance of the same things. We can compare between two students studying the same subject. But we can't compare between a philosopher and an athletic.

You can't change the past. But you still got the opportunity to make the future. Draw it as you want it to be. It is said " Don't cry over spilt milk ".It is like would my tears bring back the milk into the glass?! , of course not. Then why should I waste my time crying and not to think how to fix what's already happened. I know we have emotions, and we can't control it sometimes. It is good to express our emotions, but we shouldn't let it control us. WE SHOULD CONTROL OUR EMOTIONS BEFORE IT CONTROL US.

Don't cry over something already happened, cause it won't make a difference. What happened already happened, but we can decide what happen next. Whether we keep crying OR smile and think of another way and how to fix it. And smile because what happened already happened so it can't be worse. It is already done, we better smile cause it is already done and it can't get worse.

Of course nobody can expect getting anything without at least to try to change one thing. We all get gloomy and sad cause we don't usually get what we are dreaming of and if we took a glance at what we did, we figure out that we did nothing to get what we want or what we are dreaming of. And even if we did all the things that we have to do, to get what we want, sometimes we don't get it. But this case is not the same. Here we say I did what I have to but maybe it's not the time to get what I want or what I need, and then I cannot blame myself and nobody else can blame me, cause it out of my hand now. I tried hard and did everything I have to do, to get what I need but still didn't get it. "Why" cause maybe it's not the right time to get it, maybe you are not ready yet...But..The most important thing that you gave it a shot, AT LEAST YOU TRIED SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO REGRET NOT GETTING ANYTHING.

We always lie back on the bed sometimes and start thinking "is this the life that I have always dreamed of ?! ". And we keep thinking and thinking until we fall asleep and wake up the next day as nothing really happened yesterday and go on and start our normal and ordinary life. Every single person in the whole world has something that he is not satisfied with. It could be his friends,, work,, family,, or maybe his lifestyle routine. But  then what ?!!. What is the point of keep thinking and being depressed without even a single action or decision we make to change that thing we are not satisfied with.

A wise man said once " the first step in solving a problem is to realize that it is exist and you are not happy with it ".

And once you realized that you are not satisfied with this problem and you want to change it, then you are on the road for solving it. And once you find the road never leave it. Start immediately cause it is never too late. Just start and you will find the solution sooner or later. Cause if you didn't start now, you would regret it in the future and now it might be late to start it all over again. You had the chance to do it in the past and might not get the chance again. So we all have to start  now  whatever we want to do, we have to do it now. We don't have much time to waste it. I keep telling myself these words. We all the power of the future and we don't want to make our future a remorse.