Our life is full of difficulties; it’s not the life that you used to watch in cartoons when you were young.  Each one of us has things that makes our life has ups and downs. Let’s all agree on one thing, which is there is no forever happiness and forever sadness. So now we have only option, is to deal with our problems as they are or find solutions for them. Whether you face your problems or learn how to live with them.

You are the only person who is going to lose if you surrounded yourself with sadness and negativity. Don’t believe that you have chosen to live a bad life full of problems and tragedy. Everything has been made for you the way that you can handle it. God knows that you can pass this misfortune

Simply anyway you are going to have problems from time to time. You are going to feel sad and miserable. We all are human and have feelings, and yea sometimes we can’t control our feelings or moods. However, hey, don’t let this control your life. Take your time but then get back on track.

Feeling sad or miserable is not going to affect anything or anybody but YOU. Face it with a smile, you will see the bright side of it.

Think about it again 

Every word we say express the deep meaning of what we really feel. The words we say while happiness is so different than those words while you are sad or depressed. Also the way we say the same word, express what we really feel about it. Death, accident, war, brings a bad and sad feeling into our conscious. BUT, the sentence “ It might have been” is really the worst, as it reflects how frustrated you are. It reflects how weak and how helpless you are which is the worst thing in the world. We could be sad, we could be depressed but we should never be frustrated.

I know sometimes we get this feeling about the is no use, and nothing going to change. Or maybe I can’t do it but never lose hope. And once you try something and you fail, never stop doing it again. As you did it wrong the first time, the next time you would succeed. Sometimes we lose a great opportunity for a good job, a good position but we don’t get it. We should never say “ it might have been great”. Don’t regret anything, for your own good. We don’t know what is good for us, seek great opportunities and do what you should do to get it. Then wait for it. If it can, that would be awesome. If it didn’t that would be happened for our best. Have faith in yourself and keep fighting back the obstacles.

We sometimes mix in the comparison between things. Therefore the comparison doesn't make sense. It is like the comparison between a palm tree and the sea. You can't compare between them, you can't say which one is taller, and which one is wider. Because there is a difference between them. But you can compare a tree to a palm tree. And also you can compare a sea to an ocean. The palm tree is tall, but the sea is wide. So we can't compare between two different things.

So everyone is a genius in his own way, maybe you can't run fast but you are good math. Maybe you can't drive, but you are a genius in vehicle manufacture. Nobody has everything but everybody has one single thing. That very thing, if you found it in the very deep of you, it can totally change your life.

Never let anyone compare you to someone else. Because we all are different, everyone is unique in his own way. If someone told you that you are not as smart as someone else, tell him that you are not as fat as an elephant"lol" .What I'm saying is we can't compare people to each other, cause every single person is different from the other. We can compare between the performance of the same things. We can compare between two students studying the same subject. But we can't compare between a philosopher and an athletic.

You can't change the past. But you still got the opportunity to make the future. Draw it as you want it to be. It is said " Don't cry over spilt milk ".It is like would my tears bring back the milk into the glass?! , of course not. Then why should I waste my time crying and not to think how to fix what's already happened. I know we have emotions, and we can't control it sometimes. It is good to express our emotions, but we shouldn't let it control us. WE SHOULD CONTROL OUR EMOTIONS BEFORE IT CONTROL US.

Don't cry over something already happened, cause it won't make a difference. What happened already happened, but we can decide what happen next. Whether we keep crying OR smile and think of another way and how to fix it. And smile because what happened already happened so it can't be worse. It is already done, we better smile cause it is already done and it can't get worse.

Of course nobody can expect getting anything without at least to try to change one thing. We all get gloomy and sad cause we don't usually get what we are dreaming of and if we took a glance at what we did, we figure out that we did nothing to get what we want or what we are dreaming of. And even if we did all the things that we have to do, to get what we want, sometimes we don't get it. But this case is not the same. Here we say I did what I have to but maybe it's not the time to get what I want or what I need, and then I cannot blame myself and nobody else can blame me, cause it out of my hand now. I tried hard and did everything I have to do, to get what I need but still didn't get it. "Why" cause maybe it's not the right time to get it, maybe you are not ready yet...But..The most important thing that you gave it a shot, AT LEAST YOU TRIED SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO REGRET NOT GETTING ANYTHING.