Our life is full of difficulties; it’s not the life that you used to watch in cartoons when you were young.  Each one of us has things that makes our life has ups and downs. Let’s all agree on one thing, which is there is no forever happiness and forever sadness. So now we have only option, is to deal with our problems as they are or find solutions for them. Whether you face your problems or learn how to live with them.

You are the only person who is going to lose if you surrounded yourself with sadness and negativity. Don’t believe that you have chosen to live a bad life full of problems and tragedy. Everything has been made for you the way that you can handle it. God knows that you can pass this misfortune

Simply anyway you are going to have problems from time to time. You are going to feel sad and miserable. We all are human and have feelings, and yea sometimes we can’t control our feelings or moods. However, hey, don’t let this control your life. Take your time but then get back on track.

Feeling sad or miserable is not going to affect anything or anybody but YOU. Face it with a smile, you will see the bright side of it.

Think about it again 

Yea, I’m talking about this person whom just came into your mind right now. Love is a real pure feeling, simple and hard at the same time. Simple as once you feel it, you can say it. Simple huh?!. Hard as if you don’t get it freely, it’s hard to buy it or get it any other way. Love is priceless. You can buy happiness for some time, like you can buy a movie that could make you temporary happy. You can buy laughter by watching a comedy movie. But watching a romantic movie would bring you love?!, It’s not possible.

The love which is not given freely is not worth it. But you have to be sure that it’s real and pure. Never chase love, it comes in the most unexpected times. It comes at a strange time, unexpected places. It happens randomly. You can’t expect to fall in love on a specific date. Live your life normally until you find this strange beautiful feeling. But make sure once you find it never let it go. Hold it and fight for it till your last breath. Pure love is worth fighting and dying for it. It needs little things to keep it alive, like a flower needs water. In my opinion, the most important things to keep your love alive is. Trust, believe, care and love. 

Every word we say express the deep meaning of what we really feel. The words we say while happiness is so different than those words while you are sad or depressed. Also the way we say the same word, express what we really feel about it. Death, accident, war, brings a bad and sad feeling into our conscious. BUT, the sentence “ It might have been” is really the worst, as it reflects how frustrated you are. It reflects how weak and how helpless you are which is the worst thing in the world. We could be sad, we could be depressed but we should never be frustrated.

I know sometimes we get this feeling about the is no use, and nothing going to change. Or maybe I can’t do it but never lose hope. And once you try something and you fail, never stop doing it again. As you did it wrong the first time, the next time you would succeed. Sometimes we lose a great opportunity for a good job, a good position but we don’t get it. We should never say “ it might have been great”. Don’t regret anything, for your own good. We don’t know what is good for us, seek great opportunities and do what you should do to get it. Then wait for it. If it can, that would be awesome. If it didn’t that would be happened for our best. Have faith in yourself and keep fighting back the obstacles.

We sometimes mix in the comparison between things. Therefore the comparison doesn't make sense. It is like the comparison between a palm tree and the sea. You can't compare between them, you can't say which one is taller, and which one is wider. Because there is a difference between them. But you can compare a tree to a palm tree. And also you can compare a sea to an ocean. The palm tree is tall, but the sea is wide. So we can't compare between two different things.

So everyone is a genius in his own way, maybe you can't run fast but you are good math. Maybe you can't drive, but you are a genius in vehicle manufacture. Nobody has everything but everybody has one single thing. That very thing, if you found it in the very deep of you, it can totally change your life.

Never let anyone compare you to someone else. Because we all are different, everyone is unique in his own way. If someone told you that you are not as smart as someone else, tell him that you are not as fat as an elephant"lol" .What I'm saying is we can't compare people to each other, cause every single person is different from the other. We can compare between the performance of the same things. We can compare between two students studying the same subject. But we can't compare between a philosopher and an athletic.

Well the most important thing is believing in ourselves. How do you expect from the others believe in you whereas you don't believe in yourself. The hardest thing that can tear someone apart is not believing in himself. It's like you are dead inside. You are just a person but empty inside. We all should have faith in ourselves, so we can prove that we are exist. That we deserve to live.

There is nothing called "I can't", even if you really can't do something never say "I can't ". Cause once you say I can't your brain takes this word as a confirmation. That you really can not do this. You better say, " I can do it, but I don't want to", here you prove to yourself "even if it's not true" that you can do this, but you just don't feel like doing it. We all have to convince ourselves that we can do anything we want. We have to be the champions of ourselves. We are the best, so that we deserve the best. We all are unique. We all have different minds. So we all have something different. Sooner or later we will find this thing that makes us different from each other. But until we find out, we have to believe in ourselves. We have to have faith in ourselves. We have to trust ourselves.