Our life is full of difficulties; it’s not the life that you used to watch in cartoons when you were young.  Each one of us has things that makes our life has ups and downs. Let’s all agree on one thing, which is there is no forever happiness and forever sadness. So now we have only option, is to deal with our problems as they are or find solutions for them. Whether you face your problems or learn how to live with them.

You are the only person who is going to lose if you surrounded yourself with sadness and negativity. Don’t believe that you have chosen to live a bad life full of problems and tragedy. Everything has been made for you the way that you can handle it. God knows that you can pass this misfortune

Simply anyway you are going to have problems from time to time. You are going to feel sad and miserable. We all are human and have feelings, and yea sometimes we can’t control our feelings or moods. However, hey, don’t let this control your life. Take your time but then get back on track.

Feeling sad or miserable is not going to affect anything or anybody but YOU. Face it with a smile, you will see the bright side of it.

Think about it again 

Dream…. YES you. What would happen. Close your eyes and swim in your ocean of thoughts. If you have a dream, stick to it. Don’t abandon it….. WHY ?! , because it’s yours or someone’s else. If you give up on your dream, someone else will feed his dream until it grows up and be SOMETHING. And you !!. You will regret every moment you spent without making your dream come true. Failure ?!. Afraid of failure ?!. Yea you will fail at the first time, but do you remember when you first tried to ride a bicycle ?!!. I bet you fell 10 times to know how to ride it. Why are you afraid of failure then?!. Give it a try first and after that you can decide whether to keep going or to give up. Believe me, hesitance and being afraid of failure is the worst thing and you will regret it later.

Now ask yourself, do you want to make your dream come true?. Or you are just okay with living with your dream as it’s just a DREAM. I know it’s really hard to start, but I also know that it takes a start and then everything will work itself out. And if you failed to achieve your goal, at least you have tried and you had nothing to lose but giving it a shot.

Every word we say express the deep meaning of what we really feel. The words we say while happiness is so different than those words while you are sad or depressed. Also the way we say the same word, express what we really feel about it. Death, accident, war, brings a bad and sad feeling into our conscious. BUT, the sentence “ It might have been” is really the worst, as it reflects how frustrated you are. It reflects how weak and how helpless you are which is the worst thing in the world. We could be sad, we could be depressed but we should never be frustrated.

I know sometimes we get this feeling about the is no use, and nothing going to change. Or maybe I can’t do it but never lose hope. And once you try something and you fail, never stop doing it again. As you did it wrong the first time, the next time you would succeed. Sometimes we lose a great opportunity for a good job, a good position but we don’t get it. We should never say “ it might have been great”. Don’t regret anything, for your own good. We don’t know what is good for us, seek great opportunities and do what you should do to get it. Then wait for it. If it can, that would be awesome. If it didn’t that would be happened for our best. Have faith in yourself and keep fighting back the obstacles.

You can't change the past. But you still got the opportunity to make the future. Draw it as you want it to be. It is said " Don't cry over spilt milk ".It is like would my tears bring back the milk into the glass?! , of course not. Then why should I waste my time crying and not to think how to fix what's already happened. I know we have emotions, and we can't control it sometimes. It is good to express our emotions, but we shouldn't let it control us. WE SHOULD CONTROL OUR EMOTIONS BEFORE IT CONTROL US.

Don't cry over something already happened, cause it won't make a difference. What happened already happened, but we can decide what happen next. Whether we keep crying OR smile and think of another way and how to fix it. And smile because what happened already happened so it can't be worse. It is already done, we better smile cause it is already done and it can't get worse.

When you try to do something, and fail in doing it. I believe that I won't call it failure. Like failure in what? It wasn't a competition or a match to win or to lose. When you fail in doing something, don't call it failure. It is just you found a new way not to do next time. You knew that you have to try something different, something new. I actually believe that failure is a great thing. Cause the more you fail, the closer you get to what you want. Cause every time you miss, you learn something new and different which is not going to be happened the next time. This is how inventors think. Only the fool people who do not learn from their mistakes. It's not wrong to make a mistake but what is wrong is to do it twice.