Our life is full of difficulties; it’s not the life that you used to watch in cartoons when you were young.  Each one of us has things that makes our life has ups and downs. Let’s all agree on one thing, which is there is no forever happiness and forever sadness. So now we have only option, is to deal with our problems as they are or find solutions for them. Whether you face your problems or learn how to live with them.

You are the only person who is going to lose if you surrounded yourself with sadness and negativity. Don’t believe that you have chosen to live a bad life full of problems and tragedy. Everything has been made for you the way that you can handle it. God knows that you can pass this misfortune

Simply anyway you are going to have problems from time to time. You are going to feel sad and miserable. We all are human and have feelings, and yea sometimes we can’t control our feelings or moods. However, hey, don’t let this control your life. Take your time but then get back on track.

Feeling sad or miserable is not going to affect anything or anybody but YOU. Face it with a smile, you will see the bright side of it.

Think about it again 

Yea, I’m talking about this person whom just came into your mind right now. Love is a real pure feeling, simple and hard at the same time. Simple as once you feel it, you can say it. Simple huh?!. Hard as if you don’t get it freely, it’s hard to buy it or get it any other way. Love is priceless. You can buy happiness for some time, like you can buy a movie that could make you temporary happy. You can buy laughter by watching a comedy movie. But watching a romantic movie would bring you love?!, It’s not possible.

The love which is not given freely is not worth it. But you have to be sure that it’s real and pure. Never chase love, it comes in the most unexpected times. It comes at a strange time, unexpected places. It happens randomly. You can’t expect to fall in love on a specific date. Live your life normally until you find this strange beautiful feeling. But make sure once you find it never let it go. Hold it and fight for it till your last breath. Pure love is worth fighting and dying for it. It needs little things to keep it alive, like a flower needs water. In my opinion, the most important things to keep your love alive is. Trust, believe, care and love. 

Every word we say express the deep meaning of what we really feel. The words we say while happiness is so different than those words while you are sad or depressed. Also the way we say the same word, express what we really feel about it. Death, accident, war, brings a bad and sad feeling into our conscious. BUT, the sentence “ It might have been” is really the worst, as it reflects how frustrated you are. It reflects how weak and how helpless you are which is the worst thing in the world. We could be sad, we could be depressed but we should never be frustrated.

I know sometimes we get this feeling about the is no use, and nothing going to change. Or maybe I can’t do it but never lose hope. And once you try something and you fail, never stop doing it again. As you did it wrong the first time, the next time you would succeed. Sometimes we lose a great opportunity for a good job, a good position but we don’t get it. We should never say “ it might have been great”. Don’t regret anything, for your own good. We don’t know what is good for us, seek great opportunities and do what you should do to get it. Then wait for it. If it can, that would be awesome. If it didn’t that would be happened for our best. Have faith in yourself and keep fighting back the obstacles.

We sometimes mix in the comparison between things. Therefore the comparison doesn't make sense. It is like the comparison between a palm tree and the sea. You can't compare between them, you can't say which one is taller, and which one is wider. Because there is a difference between them. But you can compare a tree to a palm tree. And also you can compare a sea to an ocean. The palm tree is tall, but the sea is wide. So we can't compare between two different things.

So everyone is a genius in his own way, maybe you can't run fast but you are good math. Maybe you can't drive, but you are a genius in vehicle manufacture. Nobody has everything but everybody has one single thing. That very thing, if you found it in the very deep of you, it can totally change your life.

Never let anyone compare you to someone else. Because we all are different, everyone is unique in his own way. If someone told you that you are not as smart as someone else, tell him that you are not as fat as an elephant"lol" .What I'm saying is we can't compare people to each other, cause every single person is different from the other. We can compare between the performance of the same things. We can compare between two students studying the same subject. But we can't compare between a philosopher and an athletic.

You can't change the past. But you still got the opportunity to make the future. Draw it as you want it to be. It is said " Don't cry over spilt milk ".It is like would my tears bring back the milk into the glass?! , of course not. Then why should I waste my time crying and not to think how to fix what's already happened. I know we have emotions, and we can't control it sometimes. It is good to express our emotions, but we shouldn't let it control us. WE SHOULD CONTROL OUR EMOTIONS BEFORE IT CONTROL US.

Don't cry over something already happened, cause it won't make a difference. What happened already happened, but we can decide what happen next. Whether we keep crying OR smile and think of another way and how to fix it. And smile because what happened already happened so it can't be worse. It is already done, we better smile cause it is already done and it can't get worse.

We always lie back on the bed sometimes and start thinking "is this the life that I have always dreamed of ?! ". And we keep thinking and thinking until we fall asleep and wake up the next day as nothing really happened yesterday and go on and start our normal and ordinary life. Every single person in the whole world has something that he is not satisfied with. It could be his friends,, work,, family,, or maybe his lifestyle routine. But  then what ?!!. What is the point of keep thinking and being depressed without even a single action or decision we make to change that thing we are not satisfied with.

A wise man said once " the first step in solving a problem is to realize that it is exist and you are not happy with it ".

And once you realized that you are not satisfied with this problem and you want to change it, then you are on the road for solving it. And once you find the road never leave it. Start immediately cause it is never too late. Just start and you will find the solution sooner or later. Cause if you didn't start now, you would regret it in the future and now it might be late to start it all over again. You had the chance to do it in the past and might not get the chance again. So we all have to start  now  whatever we want to do, we have to do it now. We don't have much time to waste it. I keep telling myself these words. We all the power of the future and we don't want to make our future a remorse.