I believe that all of us has been there at least once. All of us have done something and got criticized for it, and also some of us criticize themselves for doing some stupid things. But wait a second. What is the purpose of criticizing ?!
Actually the only purpose is just to criticize for pleasure. Just to show the person that they are weak and not capable of doing things. If you want to break someone for no reason, criticize their work, their words and their lifestyle. But wait, almost forgot….. Nobody does this unless he’s not self-confident. Yes, true that. Nobody criticizes anybody for no reason unless he doesn’t believe in himself, and wants to prove to himself in the first place and to the others that nobody can do anything in a good way but him.
Don’t let anyone criticize you for no reason, that might affect you even if you tried to avoid it. So don’t let it stick in your head. But still, people will try to do their best to weaken you. Unfortunately it’s true, whether we believe it or not this kind of people does exist in this life. And people will criticize you anyway, and you won’t be able to please everyone. Simply because we all are different, so if you did your best, you wouldn’t be able to meet everyone’s expectations. Hence, do whatever you believe in. As long as you will be criticized anyway, you should do what you believe in and want you want. At least when someone criticizes you, you can defend yourself.
Always remember that constructive criticism is something good, it would teach you right from wrong. But destructive criticism will always lead to nowhere. If it got you, it will drown you into the sea of suspicion. Whereas critiquing is a good thing, as it helps us to know where did we go wrong. So we can avoid it in the future. So always listen to critiquing but not criticism