Our lives are full of stories, every day we start a new page in our life book. But does every day count?!. Actually it doesn’t matter if it counts or not. What matters is YOU, as long as you are satisfied with what you have done on that day. That also applies to our daily situations and conversations. Have you ever done something and got criticized?!

I believe that all of us has been there at least once. All of us have done something and got criticized for it, and also some of us criticize themselves for doing some stupid things. But wait a second. What is the purpose of criticizing ?!

Actually the only purpose is just to criticize for pleasure. Just to show the person that they are weak and not capable of doing things. If you want to break someone for no reason, criticize their work, their words and their lifestyle. But wait, almost forgot….. Nobody does this unless he’s not self-confident. Yes, true that. Nobody criticizes anybody for no reason unless he doesn’t believe in himself, and wants to prove to himself in the first place and to the others that nobody can do anything in a good way but him.

Don’t let anyone criticize you for no reason, that might affect you even if you tried to avoid it. So don’t let it stick in your head. But still, people will try to do their best to weaken you. Unfortunately it’s true, whether we believe it or not this kind of people does exist in this life. And people will criticize you anyway, and you won’t be able to please everyone. Simply because we all are different, so if you did your best, you wouldn’t be able to meet everyone’s expectations. Hence, do whatever you believe in. As long as you will be criticized anyway, you should do what you believe in and want you want. At least when someone criticizes you, you can defend yourself.

Always remember that constructive criticism is something good, it would teach you right from wrong. But destructive criticism will always lead to nowhere. If it got you, it will drown you into the sea of suspicion. Whereas critiquing is a good thing, as it helps us to know where did we go wrong. So we can avoid it in the future. So always listen to critiquing but not criticism 

I can say that this is the deepest picture I have ever seen. When I first saw it, I felt two strange feelings. The first one made me really happy, that's how love affects the emotion whatever for a human or an animal. And the second feeling brought a grief atmosphere, that how could a wild animal and a human easily understand and love each other, whereas simply most of the people can't even understand each other and not ready to. We are not listening to each other. Actually we don't want to. I believe that we really act this way, trying to prove that we are exist. Trying to convince the others that we are here and we are stronger than anybody else. Whereas which is really sad, that the REAL wildest and the strongest animal understands and feel. That reflects that the strong man doesn't need to prove his strength. Cause simply he is sure that he is strong, then why should he prove to people that he is.

That takes us to another issue, which is understanding doesn't mostly need a good speech, or someone who speaks fluent. Actually not, it just requires "REAL FEELING". If you felt what someone is trying to say, you will easily understand every single word he is trying to say. But if someone is talking to you in a classical old language fluency. It will be a good speech that amaze everybody listening, but you might not understand what is the point if the speech. It didn't touch your heart so you didn't feel it. Therefore, to interact with someone, we don't have to understand what he wants. But feel what he really needs.

The sad part is,, in this picture. The tiger is hugging the man. And we all know that, tigers are wild animals by nature like lions. They are not emotional or friendly like dogs. We can't have them as pets cause simply they are wild. They can't be tamed. But this man has proven to us that we can build a relationship between a human and a wild animal BUT with a human being. Unfortunately there is some kind of people that is really harder than a tiger to build a relationship with. People have become worse than tigers and lions. It is really shame on us that we are still having war between a nation and another one. We have brains, tongues, thoughts to share, good minds to think. But we still have wars and can't understand each other. And we fought the desire of a tiger and turned it from a wild animal into an emotional one. That is because we are "people" so greedy. Want everything and anything, and leave nothing for others. Whereas wild animals only kill to eat, once they are not hungry they don't kill animals. But people kill for MORE. WHICH REALLY SHAME ON US.I actually don't want to stop talking about this issue cause it really tears me apart. It is unfair.

How do you think we can change ourselves for the best?!

I was thinking to myself, what makes someone laugh his heart out. What makes him drop dead laughing?! . Is it a good joke?! . Is it a funny situation?! . Watching a funny movie?! . And what makes someone cry out hard and being gloomy?! . Is it the situation that affects us?! Or a movie or maybe a song ! . While thinking, I remembered that I didn't laugh that hard for a long time. I don't remember a specific situation that made me drop dead laughing.

I also don't remember a specific situation that made me really sad or even cry. And I asked myself what happened to me !!. Is it just me or there are people feeling the same way I do. Even if I laugh, I don't "really" laugh. I mean not really hard like  before when I was child. Compare this to every single feeling you have. Do you really feel the real feeling of the situation. Or just a little bit of it.

Well,, I guess we miss feeling the real "feeling". We don't love hard, work hard, play hard. Everything in our life has something missing. I remember when I was a child, everything was simple and real. I remember I was playing really hard, even if it is a simple game, I was enjoying it. Was really happy with it. When I get a simple toy, I was flying without wings. When I watch a cartoon like " Tom & Jerry " , the cartoon was very simple no complicated stories and not complicated graphics. But we all enjoyed it. My friends and I was inventing new games and keep playing till we die.

I remember, when I was young I dreamed of getting older to be more fee, to be able to do thing that I couldn't do when I was young. I dreamed of traveling alone. Dreamed of driving a car. And here I am, going everywhere, driving a car and do whatever I want. But still don't feel the same way I thought I would feel when I was young

I figured out that what makes everything around us is so "Gray" is the lifestyle. We grew up on black and white. Black means bad or lying, and white means good or the truth. Now we are living a gray world. We sometimes do things we don't know even if it's good or bad. There are so many issues that people themselves don't know whether it's good or bad. The more details in our life, the more complicated it gets.

I don't know whether I'm the only one who has this feeling, or there are many people around the world feeling the same way, just wanted to share this idea with you guys.

Do you feel the real happiness / sadness or it takes a few minutes then it vanishes ?!