Our lives are full of stories, every day we start a new page in our life book. But does every day count?!. Actually it doesn’t matter if it counts or not. What matters is YOU, as long as you are satisfied with what you have done on that day. That also applies to our daily situations and conversations. Have you ever done something and got criticized?!

I believe that all of us has been there at least once. All of us have done something and got criticized for it, and also some of us criticize themselves for doing some stupid things. But wait a second. What is the purpose of criticizing ?!

Actually the only purpose is just to criticize for pleasure. Just to show the person that they are weak and not capable of doing things. If you want to break someone for no reason, criticize their work, their words and their lifestyle. But wait, almost forgot….. Nobody does this unless he’s not self-confident. Yes, true that. Nobody criticizes anybody for no reason unless he doesn’t believe in himself, and wants to prove to himself in the first place and to the others that nobody can do anything in a good way but him.

Don’t let anyone criticize you for no reason, that might affect you even if you tried to avoid it. So don’t let it stick in your head. But still, people will try to do their best to weaken you. Unfortunately it’s true, whether we believe it or not this kind of people does exist in this life. And people will criticize you anyway, and you won’t be able to please everyone. Simply because we all are different, so if you did your best, you wouldn’t be able to meet everyone’s expectations. Hence, do whatever you believe in. As long as you will be criticized anyway, you should do what you believe in and want you want. At least when someone criticizes you, you can defend yourself.

Always remember that constructive criticism is something good, it would teach you right from wrong. But destructive criticism will always lead to nowhere. If it got you, it will drown you into the sea of suspicion. Whereas critiquing is a good thing, as it helps us to know where did we go wrong. So we can avoid it in the future. So always listen to critiquing but not criticism 

The first thing that would come into anybody’s mind while reading the title of this topic is that, the word “chameleon” is not that kind of a word that bring peace and inspiration to yourself. Whether physically or mentally, cause simply the chameleon doesn’t look beautiful. But today I won’t talk about the look of the chameleon itself. I will talk about its features.

Think with me, what makes the chameleon survive in its environment, well simply because it has got the ability to disguise. So this means that disguise is a good thing? , it can be changed to any color to whether run away or to prey. So we all agree on changing according to the environment is a good thing.

Now let’s apply this to the human daily life, we sometimes face some kind of hard situations everyday. And sometimes we collide with our principles and beliefs. In such situations we have to change our ethics to get something and it might be the only way to get it. Just as the chameleon. Would it be a problem? , It’s a helpful way to get what we want. So being a chameleon is a good thing actually don’t you think ?!

What I’m trying to say is that we humans have our own traits and features that qualify us to be good people. That’s why we have a brain to think and distinguish what is right and what is wrong. We all would agree that this kind of “ human chameleon” is exist in our life. This kind of people who change their beliefs and principles according to the situation that serve their needs. Those people who will be with you today because they need you, and against you tomorrow because you are useless to them.

We should never be inconstant, we all should stick to our principles and beliefs even if it won’t lead us to what we want. Because once you lose what you believe in and change it according to the situation, you will be  lost inside yourself and you will never find your way back to the real you.

One more thing, before you try to fool someone. Think of yourself as the fooled one, and then decide. 


What do you think would help us to get what we want apart from being an inconstant ?!

This specific kind of people exists in our schools, streets and even in our work place. Actually we can not deny that everywhere we go there is such a boring annoying person who make fun of everyone, anything even of a cat in the street. I guess we all agree and confirm that we sometimes have fun with our friends, families. We make fun of a specific situation that happened and was really funny, I actually drop dead laughing at myself when I do something funny or even when I fall down while doing something. It is a real good thing to laugh, makes us happy and fresh and always up to create. But what I'm talking about here is, those people who are just mocking people for their own pleasure. They mock every single person walking on the street whether it is a funny thing or not. And what I personally hate so much about those "assuming funny" people when they mock and make fun of someone who has a retardation problem. Whether it is a mental problem or physical one. Actually this is a rude thing which is not supposed to be happened by a human.

I call this kind of people "mocking tongues". Because simply they have nothing but a tongue who whip every single person their eyes see. That kind of people don't usually have some friends for a long time, I don't know why. But I assume that they are a bit arrogant and nobody is good enough for them, still wondering though. By mocking someone, you are trying to prove that you are exist but in a rude way. I believe that the point of mocking someone or making fun of him is just to prove to the others that you are EXIST, and you are the best. Trying to prove that at least you don't do such things that the others do.

Everyone has something inside him, maybe many of us haven't found it yet. But this doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. It exists inside you, maybe it is unseen or you haven't discovered it yet. But I believe that one day we all will rediscover ourselves. And simply what is the point of making fun of someone? To laugh?. There are so many ways to laugh. If you really want to laugh, you can just look in the mirror and look at your "funny" face and start making fun of it. No body will blame you, once you do this. You will realize that it is really annoying. At least, someone is sad and upset, just because of you. Because simply nobody will be happy by being mocked.

What would you do if someone tried to mock you?!