Simply just smile. How short this word is but actually it has a deep meaning and a deeper reflection. Imagine with me the two situations. You are walking on the street and somehow you looked at any other person dressed decently and look great but with a gloomy and angry face. Imagine what would your reaction be. Of course you will turn your face to any other person or a thing suddenly. Cause his gloomy face infected you too and you started to put that gloomy face that's why you started looking for another cheerful person. On the other hand, imagine you were walking and by chance you looked at someone who is smiling and cheerful. You will automatically smile and feel like you are happy.

That is the secret that a smile brings the happiness and the optimism to us. And it's said that " smiling is infectious, you catch it like the flue ".

And here is my story, a few days ago I was bored I felt like I do nothing important in my life. And it started to get worse and it became all black to me. But then I realized something , what is the point of being gloomy. What would I gain?. Will it change the problem or solve it?!.,actually the answer was no, nothing would happen to the world whether I'm sad or happy. The days will go on and the sun will keep rising. Since then I decided not to be gloomy ever. And I won't stop smiling even I'm not happy. Like by being frown and sad, it only affects me. It makes me feel worse. But....If I smiled something might happen to the world, to the people themselves. One day I could be that happy and cheerful person that influence any other person by chance, by just a smile. At least when someone look at me on the street will not look away to some other person because I'm not gloomy.

And I realized something. What would I lose if I smiled?!. Is something harmful would happen to me?!. I actually found out that I won't lose a thing. On the contrary, I will gain so much than I imagined. I figured out that people will like me, and will like talk to me. And also could be the reason for someone else to be happy too. And the most important thing is that I will love myself, I don't mean to be selfish but if someone doesn't love himself, how could he expect love from the others. By smiling I will be in a good health clear and positive mind, up to anything good. Think right and logically.

Actually, since then I decided not to frown and always smile. I guess well all deserve it.

Can you fake a smile just not to be rude? Or will show what you really feel?!

I was thinking to myself, what makes someone laugh his heart out. What makes him drop dead laughing?! . Is it a good joke?! . Is it a funny situation?! . Watching a funny movie?! . And what makes someone cry out hard and being gloomy?! . Is it the situation that affects us?! Or a movie or maybe a song ! . While thinking, I remembered that I didn't laugh that hard for a long time. I don't remember a specific situation that made me drop dead laughing.

I also don't remember a specific situation that made me really sad or even cry. And I asked myself what happened to me !!. Is it just me or there are people feeling the same way I do. Even if I laugh, I don't "really" laugh. I mean not really hard like  before when I was child. Compare this to every single feeling you have. Do you really feel the real feeling of the situation. Or just a little bit of it.

Well,, I guess we miss feeling the real "feeling". We don't love hard, work hard, play hard. Everything in our life has something missing. I remember when I was a child, everything was simple and real. I remember I was playing really hard, even if it is a simple game, I was enjoying it. Was really happy with it. When I get a simple toy, I was flying without wings. When I watch a cartoon like " Tom & Jerry " , the cartoon was very simple no complicated stories and not complicated graphics. But we all enjoyed it. My friends and I was inventing new games and keep playing till we die.

I remember, when I was young I dreamed of getting older to be more fee, to be able to do thing that I couldn't do when I was young. I dreamed of traveling alone. Dreamed of driving a car. And here I am, going everywhere, driving a car and do whatever I want. But still don't feel the same way I thought I would feel when I was young

I figured out that what makes everything around us is so "Gray" is the lifestyle. We grew up on black and white. Black means bad or lying, and white means good or the truth. Now we are living a gray world. We sometimes do things we don't know even if it's good or bad. There are so many issues that people themselves don't know whether it's good or bad. The more details in our life, the more complicated it gets.

I don't know whether I'm the only one who has this feeling, or there are many people around the world feeling the same way, just wanted to share this idea with you guys.

Do you feel the real happiness / sadness or it takes a few minutes then it vanishes ?!