We live in a really big wide world. When we walk on the streets, we see too many faces every day. We meet many strangers whom we are almost certain that we will not meet them again. We meet people we don’t know everyday, but when we try to meet someone we already know it gets a bit hard sometimes.

We all are connected somehow, those strange faces we meet every day are connected to us by a mean or another. This old man whom I don’t know could be my grandfather’s friend. This young girl could be one of my sister’s friends. This guy also might be a friend of my friend. There is a chance that this person might know of my family members.

Now, let’s think about one more thing. While you are reading this right now, there is someone out there in the world is waiting for you. And this person doesn’t even know that you are existing in this big world. There is a specific someone who is meant to be yours. This special someone is out there, you don’t know him/her yet. You don’t even know if you already know this person or not.

This person is your lover, the person whom you are going to spend your whole life with. The one who is going to be your partner in life, and the parent of your kids. While you are staying reading this right now, this person is doing something else. And you both are waiting for the moment you meet each other. Among all of these people, there is only one single person who is waiting for us. 

Have you met your person yet?!

What a crazy world we live in. We were born really weak and helpless, but then we get strong. Poor people become rich, and the rich get poor. Some people get married, and some others lose their partners. Every day there are many babies are born, and some others dies. You sometimes get something you want, but lose something you need. When you want something so bad, you don’t get it. But after awhile you realize that you wouldn’t have liked it, if you had got it. You kill yourself at work, but you don’t get a promotion .What a random crazy world

Oh wait a second, we are about to figure out something here. I don’t think this is random order. The world is running according to an order, a higher order that we can’t understand. It is destiny. Destiny is already there and exists, we are just walking to it. There is a difference between destiny and reality. We can’t change destiny as it already exists but we are just doing things which lead us to it. But we can change the present and the reality. We can change who we are, we can change our goals but we can’t change when are we going to die. Everything in this world is being done in order, we just can’t see it

Do you think a man has the choice or propulsive?! 

When you first look at this picture, what is the first thing comes into your mind?! . The beautiful view of the sea that hits the rocks! . Or the sad, scary skull?!

Actually everything  in the whole world could be seen in many ways. And most of the things are not always what they seem. Sometimes we see the same picture in different ways. And also there are some situations we can’t agree on one opinion regarding them. If you asked your friends about what is the most thing they like on the beach? . One of them is going to say the sea itself. And another one is going to say “ I love walking on the sand” . And the other one will say “ OMG I love the girls there “ .

So it only depends on us. Not on the picture, or the place. We are the only source that gives the meaning and the definition to things, according to our thoughts and our beliefs. On this picture you have just seen up there. Some people are going to see the face of the skull as the main picture. Which is going to reflect their inner thoughts and their beliefs, that they are some kind of gloomy people. They are that type of sad people, who don’t see joyful and happiness in this life. And the other people are going to see the amazing view of the sea that hit the rocks and keep carving them when they very first see this picture.

At the end, Our thoughts and our beliefs always reflect what we see in the physical world. What we believe in, control the way we see the world. We usually see what suit our mind, beliefs and thoughts. If you are an optimistic person, you will see everything beautiful and glamorous. And if you are a pessimist person, you will see everything around you gloomy, joyless.

Do you agree that our thoughts and beliefs reflects the way that we see the world?!

I can say that this is the deepest picture I have ever seen. When I first saw it, I felt two strange feelings. The first one made me really happy, that's how love affects the emotion whatever for a human or an animal. And the second feeling brought a grief atmosphere, that how could a wild animal and a human easily understand and love each other, whereas simply most of the people can't even understand each other and not ready to. We are not listening to each other. Actually we don't want to. I believe that we really act this way, trying to prove that we are exist. Trying to convince the others that we are here and we are stronger than anybody else. Whereas which is really sad, that the REAL wildest and the strongest animal understands and feel. That reflects that the strong man doesn't need to prove his strength. Cause simply he is sure that he is strong, then why should he prove to people that he is.

That takes us to another issue, which is understanding doesn't mostly need a good speech, or someone who speaks fluent. Actually not, it just requires "REAL FEELING". If you felt what someone is trying to say, you will easily understand every single word he is trying to say. But if someone is talking to you in a classical old language fluency. It will be a good speech that amaze everybody listening, but you might not understand what is the point if the speech. It didn't touch your heart so you didn't feel it. Therefore, to interact with someone, we don't have to understand what he wants. But feel what he really needs.

The sad part is,, in this picture. The tiger is hugging the man. And we all know that, tigers are wild animals by nature like lions. They are not emotional or friendly like dogs. We can't have them as pets cause simply they are wild. They can't be tamed. But this man has proven to us that we can build a relationship between a human and a wild animal BUT with a human being. Unfortunately there is some kind of people that is really harder than a tiger to build a relationship with. People have become worse than tigers and lions. It is really shame on us that we are still having war between a nation and another one. We have brains, tongues, thoughts to share, good minds to think. But we still have wars and can't understand each other. And we fought the desire of a tiger and turned it from a wild animal into an emotional one. That is because we are "people" so greedy. Want everything and anything, and leave nothing for others. Whereas wild animals only kill to eat, once they are not hungry they don't kill animals. But people kill for MORE. WHICH REALLY SHAME ON US.I actually don't want to stop talking about this issue cause it really tears me apart. It is unfair.

How do you think we can change ourselves for the best?!

Simply just smile. How short this word is but actually it has a deep meaning and a deeper reflection. Imagine with me the two situations. You are walking on the street and somehow you looked at any other person dressed decently and look great but with a gloomy and angry face. Imagine what would your reaction be. Of course you will turn your face to any other person or a thing suddenly. Cause his gloomy face infected you too and you started to put that gloomy face that's why you started looking for another cheerful person. On the other hand, imagine you were walking and by chance you looked at someone who is smiling and cheerful. You will automatically smile and feel like you are happy.

That is the secret that a smile brings the happiness and the optimism to us. And it's said that " smiling is infectious, you catch it like the flue ".

And here is my story, a few days ago I was bored I felt like I do nothing important in my life. And it started to get worse and it became all black to me. But then I realized something , what is the point of being gloomy. What would I gain?. Will it change the problem or solve it?!.,actually the answer was no, nothing would happen to the world whether I'm sad or happy. The days will go on and the sun will keep rising. Since then I decided not to be gloomy ever. And I won't stop smiling even I'm not happy. Like by being frown and sad, it only affects me. It makes me feel worse. But....If I smiled something might happen to the world, to the people themselves. One day I could be that happy and cheerful person that influence any other person by chance, by just a smile. At least when someone look at me on the street will not look away to some other person because I'm not gloomy.

And I realized something. What would I lose if I smiled?!. Is something harmful would happen to me?!. I actually found out that I won't lose a thing. On the contrary, I will gain so much than I imagined. I figured out that people will like me, and will like talk to me. And also could be the reason for someone else to be happy too. And the most important thing is that I will love myself, I don't mean to be selfish but if someone doesn't love himself, how could he expect love from the others. By smiling I will be in a good health clear and positive mind, up to anything good. Think right and logically.

Actually, since then I decided not to frown and always smile. I guess well all deserve it.

Can you fake a smile just not to be rude? Or will show what you really feel?!

I was thinking to myself, what makes someone laugh his heart out. What makes him drop dead laughing?! . Is it a good joke?! . Is it a funny situation?! . Watching a funny movie?! . And what makes someone cry out hard and being gloomy?! . Is it the situation that affects us?! Or a movie or maybe a song ! . While thinking, I remembered that I didn't laugh that hard for a long time. I don't remember a specific situation that made me drop dead laughing.

I also don't remember a specific situation that made me really sad or even cry. And I asked myself what happened to me !!. Is it just me or there are people feeling the same way I do. Even if I laugh, I don't "really" laugh. I mean not really hard like  before when I was child. Compare this to every single feeling you have. Do you really feel the real feeling of the situation. Or just a little bit of it.

Well,, I guess we miss feeling the real "feeling". We don't love hard, work hard, play hard. Everything in our life has something missing. I remember when I was a child, everything was simple and real. I remember I was playing really hard, even if it is a simple game, I was enjoying it. Was really happy with it. When I get a simple toy, I was flying without wings. When I watch a cartoon like " Tom & Jerry " , the cartoon was very simple no complicated stories and not complicated graphics. But we all enjoyed it. My friends and I was inventing new games and keep playing till we die.

I remember, when I was young I dreamed of getting older to be more fee, to be able to do thing that I couldn't do when I was young. I dreamed of traveling alone. Dreamed of driving a car. And here I am, going everywhere, driving a car and do whatever I want. But still don't feel the same way I thought I would feel when I was young

I figured out that what makes everything around us is so "Gray" is the lifestyle. We grew up on black and white. Black means bad or lying, and white means good or the truth. Now we are living a gray world. We sometimes do things we don't know even if it's good or bad. There are so many issues that people themselves don't know whether it's good or bad. The more details in our life, the more complicated it gets.

I don't know whether I'm the only one who has this feeling, or there are many people around the world feeling the same way, just wanted to share this idea with you guys.

Do you feel the real happiness / sadness or it takes a few minutes then it vanishes ?!