The first thing that would come into anybody’s mind while reading the title of this topic is that, the word “chameleon” is not that kind of a word that bring peace and inspiration to yourself. Whether physically or mentally, cause simply the chameleon doesn’t look beautiful. But today I won’t talk about the look of the chameleon itself. I will talk about its features.

Think with me, what makes the chameleon survive in its environment, well simply because it has got the ability to disguise. So this means that disguise is a good thing? , it can be changed to any color to whether run away or to prey. So we all agree on changing according to the environment is a good thing.

Now let’s apply this to the human daily life, we sometimes face some kind of hard situations everyday. And sometimes we collide with our principles and beliefs. In such situations we have to change our ethics to get something and it might be the only way to get it. Just as the chameleon. Would it be a problem? , It’s a helpful way to get what we want. So being a chameleon is a good thing actually don’t you think ?!

What I’m trying to say is that we humans have our own traits and features that qualify us to be good people. That’s why we have a brain to think and distinguish what is right and what is wrong. We all would agree that this kind of “ human chameleon” is exist in our life. This kind of people who change their beliefs and principles according to the situation that serve their needs. Those people who will be with you today because they need you, and against you tomorrow because you are useless to them.

We should never be inconstant, we all should stick to our principles and beliefs even if it won’t lead us to what we want. Because once you lose what you believe in and change it according to the situation, you will be  lost inside yourself and you will never find your way back to the real you.

One more thing, before you try to fool someone. Think of yourself as the fooled one, and then decide. 


What do you think would help us to get what we want apart from being an inconstant ?!

When you first look at this picture, what is the first thing comes into your mind?! . The beautiful view of the sea that hits the rocks! . Or the sad, scary skull?!

Actually everything  in the whole world could be seen in many ways. And most of the things are not always what they seem. Sometimes we see the same picture in different ways. And also there are some situations we can’t agree on one opinion regarding them. If you asked your friends about what is the most thing they like on the beach? . One of them is going to say the sea itself. And another one is going to say “ I love walking on the sand” . And the other one will say “ OMG I love the girls there “ .

So it only depends on us. Not on the picture, or the place. We are the only source that gives the meaning and the definition to things, according to our thoughts and our beliefs. On this picture you have just seen up there. Some people are going to see the face of the skull as the main picture. Which is going to reflect their inner thoughts and their beliefs, that they are some kind of gloomy people. They are that type of sad people, who don’t see joyful and happiness in this life. And the other people are going to see the amazing view of the sea that hit the rocks and keep carving them when they very first see this picture.

At the end, Our thoughts and our beliefs always reflect what we see in the physical world. What we believe in, control the way we see the world. We usually see what suit our mind, beliefs and thoughts. If you are an optimistic person, you will see everything beautiful and glamorous. And if you are a pessimist person, you will see everything around you gloomy, joyless.

Do you agree that our thoughts and beliefs reflects the way that we see the world?!

I was thinking to myself, what makes someone laugh his heart out. What makes him drop dead laughing?! . Is it a good joke?! . Is it a funny situation?! . Watching a funny movie?! . And what makes someone cry out hard and being gloomy?! . Is it the situation that affects us?! Or a movie or maybe a song ! . While thinking, I remembered that I didn't laugh that hard for a long time. I don't remember a specific situation that made me drop dead laughing.

I also don't remember a specific situation that made me really sad or even cry. And I asked myself what happened to me !!. Is it just me or there are people feeling the same way I do. Even if I laugh, I don't "really" laugh. I mean not really hard like  before when I was child. Compare this to every single feeling you have. Do you really feel the real feeling of the situation. Or just a little bit of it.

Well,, I guess we miss feeling the real "feeling". We don't love hard, work hard, play hard. Everything in our life has something missing. I remember when I was a child, everything was simple and real. I remember I was playing really hard, even if it is a simple game, I was enjoying it. Was really happy with it. When I get a simple toy, I was flying without wings. When I watch a cartoon like " Tom & Jerry " , the cartoon was very simple no complicated stories and not complicated graphics. But we all enjoyed it. My friends and I was inventing new games and keep playing till we die.

I remember, when I was young I dreamed of getting older to be more fee, to be able to do thing that I couldn't do when I was young. I dreamed of traveling alone. Dreamed of driving a car. And here I am, going everywhere, driving a car and do whatever I want. But still don't feel the same way I thought I would feel when I was young

I figured out that what makes everything around us is so "Gray" is the lifestyle. We grew up on black and white. Black means bad or lying, and white means good or the truth. Now we are living a gray world. We sometimes do things we don't know even if it's good or bad. There are so many issues that people themselves don't know whether it's good or bad. The more details in our life, the more complicated it gets.

I don't know whether I'm the only one who has this feeling, or there are many people around the world feeling the same way, just wanted to share this idea with you guys.

Do you feel the real happiness / sadness or it takes a few minutes then it vanishes ?!