“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.”
Actually what makes any kind of relationship fail and never work out is PRETENDING and LYING to get our partner’s attraction. We don’t realize that sooner or later he/she will know what we really are. Every single lie in the history has its time to be revealed. So why should we start it from the beginning. And once we found out that our partner is pretending or lying, we would quickly break up and end the relationship RIGHT?!. Yes, you would break up with your partner if you found out that he/she is lying or cheating.
If you wanted to be truly loved, NEVER pretend or put a mask that is not originally yours. If you want to change something in your personality, do it. But don’t pretend that you don’t even have it until you get rid of it. We all deserve to be loved for who we really are, for our own personality. Cause sooner or later the makeup you used to wear will flake. And once it does, the people who used to love you will hate you more than they loved you in the past. Nobody is loved by everybody, be who you really are and you will find many people love you for who you are not for being someone else.