Our life is full of difficulties; it’s not the life that you used to watch in cartoons when you were young.  Each one of us has things that makes our life has ups and downs. Let’s all agree on one thing, which is there is no forever happiness and forever sadness. So now we have only option, is to deal with our problems as they are or find solutions for them. Whether you face your problems or learn how to live with them.

You are the only person who is going to lose if you surrounded yourself with sadness and negativity. Don’t believe that you have chosen to live a bad life full of problems and tragedy. Everything has been made for you the way that you can handle it. God knows that you can pass this misfortune

Simply anyway you are going to have problems from time to time. You are going to feel sad and miserable. We all are human and have feelings, and yea sometimes we can’t control our feelings or moods. However, hey, don’t let this control your life. Take your time but then get back on track.

Feeling sad or miserable is not going to affect anything or anybody but YOU. Face it with a smile, you will see the bright side of it.

Think about it again 

Dream…. YES you. What would happen. Close your eyes and swim in your ocean of thoughts. If you have a dream, stick to it. Don’t abandon it….. WHY ?! , because it’s yours or someone’s else. If you give up on your dream, someone else will feed his dream until it grows up and be SOMETHING. And you !!. You will regret every moment you spent without making your dream come true. Failure ?!. Afraid of failure ?!. Yea you will fail at the first time, but do you remember when you first tried to ride a bicycle ?!!. I bet you fell 10 times to know how to ride it. Why are you afraid of failure then?!. Give it a try first and after that you can decide whether to keep going or to give up. Believe me, hesitance and being afraid of failure is the worst thing and you will regret it later.

Now ask yourself, do you want to make your dream come true?. Or you are just okay with living with your dream as it’s just a DREAM. I know it’s really hard to start, but I also know that it takes a start and then everything will work itself out. And if you failed to achieve your goal, at least you have tried and you had nothing to lose but giving it a shot.

Every word we say express the deep meaning of what we really feel. The words we say while happiness is so different than those words while you are sad or depressed. Also the way we say the same word, express what we really feel about it. Death, accident, war, brings a bad and sad feeling into our conscious. BUT, the sentence “ It might have been” is really the worst, as it reflects how frustrated you are. It reflects how weak and how helpless you are which is the worst thing in the world. We could be sad, we could be depressed but we should never be frustrated.

I know sometimes we get this feeling about the is no use, and nothing going to change. Or maybe I can’t do it but never lose hope. And once you try something and you fail, never stop doing it again. As you did it wrong the first time, the next time you would succeed. Sometimes we lose a great opportunity for a good job, a good position but we don’t get it. We should never say “ it might have been great”. Don’t regret anything, for your own good. We don’t know what is good for us, seek great opportunities and do what you should do to get it. Then wait for it. If it can, that would be awesome. If it didn’t that would be happened for our best. Have faith in yourself and keep fighting back the obstacles.

Pretending, the most awful word that ever used. Actually it brings shame and scandal to the people who uses it. Why should you take someone’s else personality or character and use it as it is yours whereas it is not. Why should we lie about things that are not actually in us. If you like something in someone else, something in his personality. Try to improve yourself to be like him, it’s something that we shouldn’t be ashamed of. But what we should be deeply ashamed of is to pretend that you are SOMETHING whereas you are totally SOMETHING ELSE.

Actually what makes any kind of relationship fail and never work out is PRETENDING and LYING to get our partner’s attraction. We don’t realize that sooner or later he/she will know what we really are. Every single lie in the history has its time to be revealed. So why should we start it from the beginning. And once we found out that our partner is pretending or lying, we would quickly break up and end the relationship RIGHT?!. Yes, you would break up with your partner if you found out that he/she is lying or cheating.

If you wanted to be truly loved, NEVER pretend or put a mask that is not originally yours. If you want to change something in your personality, do it. But don’t pretend that you don’t even have it until you get rid of it. We all deserve to be loved for who we really are, for our own personality. Cause sooner or later the makeup you used to wear will flake. And once it does, the people who used to love you will hate you more than they loved you in the past. Nobody is loved by everybody, be who you really are and you will find many people love you for who you are not for being someone else. 

We sometimes mix in the comparison between things. Therefore the comparison doesn't make sense. It is like the comparison between a palm tree and the sea. You can't compare between them, you can't say which one is taller, and which one is wider. Because there is a difference between them. But you can compare a tree to a palm tree. And also you can compare a sea to an ocean. The palm tree is tall, but the sea is wide. So we can't compare between two different things.

So everyone is a genius in his own way, maybe you can't run fast but you are good math. Maybe you can't drive, but you are a genius in vehicle manufacture. Nobody has everything but everybody has one single thing. That very thing, if you found it in the very deep of you, it can totally change your life.

Never let anyone compare you to someone else. Because we all are different, everyone is unique in his own way. If someone told you that you are not as smart as someone else, tell him that you are not as fat as an elephant"lol" .What I'm saying is we can't compare people to each other, cause every single person is different from the other. We can compare between the performance of the same things. We can compare between two students studying the same subject. But we can't compare between a philosopher and an athletic.

Everyone want to be succeed in his life, work and in his relations with the others. And it's a good thing and we all should seek success, it's a great feeling to be the manager of your work. And the richest in your Neighborhood, but wait a second. Don't let your success turn on you and bites you. Don't let your ego attack you. Cause once it did, you won't be able to conquer it.

As long as we get rich, be very successful, and get everything we want. Our ego knocks the door, we will start imaging ourselves as kings who have everything and can get anything we want. In such a situation we should stop thinking for a moment, and decide is that the person who you really want to be. That is not who you really are. When we get a promotion, that makes everybody grace us, be careful, cause once they do this, they just want to get closer to us , cause you are the manager. And you are going to feel that you own them, once we start feeling that you own people here,, you should wake up cause you are getting so arrogant that makes you feel like want to have everything and everyone. Be humble everyone is going to love you for who you really are. Not cause they need something from you therefore they will not use you

The higher you climb the wilder ego you get. So I guess we all have to train our ego not to turn around and bite us.

Well the most important thing is believing in ourselves. How do you expect from the others believe in you whereas you don't believe in yourself. The hardest thing that can tear someone apart is not believing in himself. It's like you are dead inside. You are just a person but empty inside. We all should have faith in ourselves, so we can prove that we are exist. That we deserve to live.

There is nothing called "I can't", even if you really can't do something never say "I can't ". Cause once you say I can't your brain takes this word as a confirmation. That you really can not do this. You better say, " I can do it, but I don't want to", here you prove to yourself "even if it's not true" that you can do this, but you just don't feel like doing it. We all have to convince ourselves that we can do anything we want. We have to be the champions of ourselves. We are the best, so that we deserve the best. We all are unique. We all have different minds. So we all have something different. Sooner or later we will find this thing that makes us different from each other. But until we find out, we have to believe in ourselves. We have to have faith in ourselves. We have to trust ourselves.

We always lie back on the bed sometimes and start thinking "is this the life that I have always dreamed of ?! ". And we keep thinking and thinking until we fall asleep and wake up the next day as nothing really happened yesterday and go on and start our normal and ordinary life. Every single person in the whole world has something that he is not satisfied with. It could be his friends,, work,, family,, or maybe his lifestyle routine. But  then what ?!!. What is the point of keep thinking and being depressed without even a single action or decision we make to change that thing we are not satisfied with.

A wise man said once " the first step in solving a problem is to realize that it is exist and you are not happy with it ".

And once you realized that you are not satisfied with this problem and you want to change it, then you are on the road for solving it. And once you find the road never leave it. Start immediately cause it is never too late. Just start and you will find the solution sooner or later. Cause if you didn't start now, you would regret it in the future and now it might be late to start it all over again. You had the chance to do it in the past and might not get the chance again. So we all have to start  now  whatever we want to do, we have to do it now. We don't have much time to waste it. I keep telling myself these words. We all the power of the future and we don't want to make our future a remorse.