Everyone want to be succeed in his life, work and in his relations with the others. And it's a good thing and we all should seek success, it's a great feeling to be the manager of your work. And the richest in your Neighborhood, but wait a second. Don't let your success turn on you and bites you. Don't let your ego attack you. Cause once it did, you won't be able to conquer it.

As long as we get rich, be very successful, and get everything we want. Our ego knocks the door, we will start imaging ourselves as kings who have everything and can get anything we want. In such a situation we should stop thinking for a moment, and decide is that the person who you really want to be. That is not who you really are. When we get a promotion, that makes everybody grace us, be careful, cause once they do this, they just want to get closer to us , cause you are the manager. And you are going to feel that you own them, once we start feeling that you own people here,, you should wake up cause you are getting so arrogant that makes you feel like want to have everything and everyone. Be humble everyone is going to love you for who you really are. Not cause they need something from you therefore they will not use you

The higher you climb the wilder ego you get. So I guess we all have to train our ego not to turn around and bite us.

Well the most important thing is believing in ourselves. How do you expect from the others believe in you whereas you don't believe in yourself. The hardest thing that can tear someone apart is not believing in himself. It's like you are dead inside. You are just a person but empty inside. We all should have faith in ourselves, so we can prove that we are exist. That we deserve to live.

There is nothing called "I can't", even if you really can't do something never say "I can't ". Cause once you say I can't your brain takes this word as a confirmation. That you really can not do this. You better say, " I can do it, but I don't want to", here you prove to yourself "even if it's not true" that you can do this, but you just don't feel like doing it. We all have to convince ourselves that we can do anything we want. We have to be the champions of ourselves. We are the best, so that we deserve the best. We all are unique. We all have different minds. So we all have something different. Sooner or later we will find this thing that makes us different from each other. But until we find out, we have to believe in ourselves. We have to have faith in ourselves. We have to trust ourselves.

Of course nobody can expect getting anything without at least to try to change one thing. We all get gloomy and sad cause we don't usually get what we are dreaming of and if we took a glance at what we did, we figure out that we did nothing to get what we want or what we are dreaming of. And even if we did all the things that we have to do, to get what we want, sometimes we don't get it. But this case is not the same. Here we say I did what I have to but maybe it's not the time to get what I want or what I need, and then I cannot blame myself and nobody else can blame me, cause it out of my hand now. I tried hard and did everything I have to do, to get what I need but still didn't get it. "Why" cause maybe it's not the right time to get it, maybe you are not ready yet...But..The most important thing that you gave it a shot, AT LEAST YOU TRIED SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO REGRET NOT GETTING ANYTHING.

We always lie back on the bed sometimes and start thinking "is this the life that I have always dreamed of ?! ". And we keep thinking and thinking until we fall asleep and wake up the next day as nothing really happened yesterday and go on and start our normal and ordinary life. Every single person in the whole world has something that he is not satisfied with. It could be his friends,, work,, family,, or maybe his lifestyle routine. But  then what ?!!. What is the point of keep thinking and being depressed without even a single action or decision we make to change that thing we are not satisfied with.

A wise man said once " the first step in solving a problem is to realize that it is exist and you are not happy with it ".

And once you realized that you are not satisfied with this problem and you want to change it, then you are on the road for solving it. And once you find the road never leave it. Start immediately cause it is never too late. Just start and you will find the solution sooner or later. Cause if you didn't start now, you would regret it in the future and now it might be late to start it all over again. You had the chance to do it in the past and might not get the chance again. So we all have to start  now  whatever we want to do, we have to do it now. We don't have much time to waste it. I keep telling myself these words. We all the power of the future and we don't want to make our future a remorse.

 As it seems, rarely something good happens by chance, if you worked hard, you would find success, think hard and you will come up with something really great. A philosopher didn't become one by change or by luck, no he read so much and experienced everything to get his own knowledge. You cannot be rich by luck, you cannot be wise by luck, work on what you want, and you will find the best at the end. I know it is hard to get what you want but at least try to, and maybe we could make it one day. But what I'm so sure of is that nothing happens for no reason. And everything comes to people who deserve it. Not for the people who only have good luck.

When I first read this quote, it just stuck in my mind. Cause finally I knew why the lovers can't fall asleep the whole night long "lol".

Love is really a great feeling, if it is really true, you will feel like you are a super hero who can do anything he want. It gives you the strength to do anything anytime. That is why we all cannot live without love. Love between couples, love between friends, and family.

There are many kinds of love but they all lead to one feeling. And leads to caring and being there for the people we love.

Of course nobody knows everything in the whole world. There is wrong and right, up and down. Nothing is absolute right and nothing is absolute wrong. It changes from one to another. And of course everyone has made some mistakes in his own life. And those mistakes changes from one person to others. And life would be so so short to try them all and do everything wrong to know the right ones.

It's good to try your own mistake and try the experience of finding the correct and right things. This is the best way to find the truth. But there are millions of people who have made some mistakes in their own life and every single mistake is not like the other ones. So you need millions of years to find your own truth and correct your mistakes.

                          So what now, should we make every mistake?

No of course not, I believe that there are some things needs to be tried and there are some others that need to be informed by others. Like for example, there is some experience of an old man who knows much better than a young boy. So we all have to listen to the old to get their experience in life which cost them their whole life. And the one we should experience them ourselves are like driving, swimming. Like nobody make you swim or drive good but you. You can take many lessons but it will be useless unless you don't practice yourself.

So I believe that the best thing to do is take everybody's experiences and analyze them go with your beliefs and principles. And of course that will help you handling such a  hard situation. Because no one has the time to do and try every single mistake in the whole life to prove to himself which is right and which is wrong. So we all have to learn from each other's errors and mistakes to correct ours.

Actually nothing deserve to get on your nerve. I really like this quote, because it is really true. Like we all get nervous but at what?! , I bet it is at worthless things. Like we lose our health and get a dispersed mind. Like we will get nothing by being angry and nervous. And we rarely get angry at something deserve it. Then why should we even get angry. It's kinda hard to control yourself in such situation, but at least try to not get mad.

Well for me I used to be kind of nervous. Like it was easy to get on my nerve but I find out that there is no point of that. Like sometimes I got the right to be angry but being angry make me lose this right sometimes and be on a weak standpoint. So I decided not to get angry that easy, and control myself to not to lose my rights while I'm discussing something with someone. And I really knew that being angry doesn't even worth it. I don't win anything but getting mad and lose people. So I decided to stop it.

And controlling yourself is not that easy, and it doesn't happen as soon as you take the decision. No it need practice. And step by step you will know how to control yourself while you are mad or angry. And believe me it doesn't worth it and you will not win a thing.

Have you ever asked someone for something and he let you down?.I guess we have to think for a moment. Do we deserve it?, Or they are just bad people.

I guess we have to ask ourselves one and only question. Do we really help people in need to find the people who could help us. I guess it's more simple than that. We don't have to give to get. The good people who are just giving without waiting the getting. It is so good to help someone and by looking in his eyes, you see so sweet words can't be told by mouth. Sometimes mouth and tongue cannot express what we feel, but eyes could. You will see the thankful phrases with no single word. That's what does giving mean. Keep giving as much as you could, but never wait to get. It's good to live for your life and for others'.

Of course people who only live for their own life. And just need everything for themselves and don't care about anybody else will get anything. And if they needed help they won't find it cause they only care about themselves, why should anybody else help them.

But people who give, help and care of other people will find many persons there for them in such bad times. Never think of getting something, without giving first. Start with yourself start to help give and never live for your personal needs only. We don't live alone in the world. So we all have to start sharing, helping, care for each other. And believe me be there for someone and he will be there for you.

Everybody meets so many people every day. Some of them agrees with your opinion, and some other don't. Some of them encourage you to do something, and some other don't even care. Some of them gives you positive opinions, and some other give you negative ones.

We have to listen to every single opinion bout us, even if it is negative. We all know that positive opinions make us feel good and make us full of power and energy. But what about the negative ones. We have to listen to negative opinion carefully, because they are more important than the positive ones. When someone tells you a positive comment, it makes you feel happy. But when someone tells you a negative comment, it makes you feel sad and depressed , why....,Cause he might be right, what if there is actually something wrong with you. In this case you will be able to fix it, and change the wrong thing to be a good thing, only if it's true and not only a pointless negative comment or opinion. "Positive opinions make us feel good, but negative one help us getting better "

And we should listen to everything, but that doesn't we let it affect us badly. We are not like machines do whatever everybody tell us.

“You should have your own voice, and work on it to be heard”