Most of us have dreamed of something, but once we got it. The urge we used to have just disappeared. The people that we used to have a crush on, once we talk to them. We see the fake things that you were not seeing. The toy that you wanted to get, when you were a kid. But once you got it, you lost the excitement of it. We all sometimes underestimate genuine things, and value fake things. 
This is all because in most of the cases, the look deceives. We sometimes misestimate everything

 The poisonous plants, they are beautiful. However, once you touch them, they kill you smoothly. There are many attractive things in the world. The fact is that they might only seem attractive, just the cover. Nevertheless, once you have them, you realize that it was just a peel.

On the other hand, we meet people that we think that they are boring or bad. But in fact, they have a gem inside. Yes, their heart is really kind and pure. Once you talk to them, the real treasure appears. 

What I want to say is, never judge a book by its cover. Do not judge people by the way they look. Get to know them, then you can decide if they are good or not. The world is full of illusive things and deceptive people. 
By time, the way we used to look at something differ according to the situation and experience we get.

Our lives are full of stories, every day we start a new page in our life book. But does every day count?!. Actually it doesn’t matter if it counts or not. What matters is YOU, as long as you are satisfied with what you have done on that day. That also applies to our daily situations and conversations. Have you ever done something and got criticized?!

I believe that all of us has been there at least once. All of us have done something and got criticized for it, and also some of us criticize themselves for doing some stupid things. But wait a second. What is the purpose of criticizing ?!

Actually the only purpose is just to criticize for pleasure. Just to show the person that they are weak and not capable of doing things. If you want to break someone for no reason, criticize their work, their words and their lifestyle. But wait, almost forgot….. Nobody does this unless he’s not self-confident. Yes, true that. Nobody criticizes anybody for no reason unless he doesn’t believe in himself, and wants to prove to himself in the first place and to the others that nobody can do anything in a good way but him.

Don’t let anyone criticize you for no reason, that might affect you even if you tried to avoid it. So don’t let it stick in your head. But still, people will try to do their best to weaken you. Unfortunately it’s true, whether we believe it or not this kind of people does exist in this life. And people will criticize you anyway, and you won’t be able to please everyone. Simply because we all are different, so if you did your best, you wouldn’t be able to meet everyone’s expectations. Hence, do whatever you believe in. As long as you will be criticized anyway, you should do what you believe in and want you want. At least when someone criticizes you, you can defend yourself.

Always remember that constructive criticism is something good, it would teach you right from wrong. But destructive criticism will always lead to nowhere. If it got you, it will drown you into the sea of suspicion. Whereas critiquing is a good thing, as it helps us to know where did we go wrong. So we can avoid it in the future. So always listen to critiquing but not criticism 

We live in a really big wide world. When we walk on the streets, we see too many faces every day. We meet many strangers whom we are almost certain that we will not meet them again. We meet people we don’t know everyday, but when we try to meet someone we already know it gets a bit hard sometimes.

We all are connected somehow, those strange faces we meet every day are connected to us by a mean or another. This old man whom I don’t know could be my grandfather’s friend. This young girl could be one of my sister’s friends. This guy also might be a friend of my friend. There is a chance that this person might know of my family members.

Now, let’s think about one more thing. While you are reading this right now, there is someone out there in the world is waiting for you. And this person doesn’t even know that you are existing in this big world. There is a specific someone who is meant to be yours. This special someone is out there, you don’t know him/her yet. You don’t even know if you already know this person or not.

This person is your lover, the person whom you are going to spend your whole life with. The one who is going to be your partner in life, and the parent of your kids. While you are staying reading this right now, this person is doing something else. And you both are waiting for the moment you meet each other. Among all of these people, there is only one single person who is waiting for us. 

Have you met your person yet?!

What a crazy world we live in. We were born really weak and helpless, but then we get strong. Poor people become rich, and the rich get poor. Some people get married, and some others lose their partners. Every day there are many babies are born, and some others dies. You sometimes get something you want, but lose something you need. When you want something so bad, you don’t get it. But after awhile you realize that you wouldn’t have liked it, if you had got it. You kill yourself at work, but you don’t get a promotion .What a random crazy world

Oh wait a second, we are about to figure out something here. I don’t think this is random order. The world is running according to an order, a higher order that we can’t understand. It is destiny. Destiny is already there and exists, we are just walking to it. There is a difference between destiny and reality. We can’t change destiny as it already exists but we are just doing things which lead us to it. But we can change the present and the reality. We can change who we are, we can change our goals but we can’t change when are we going to die. Everything in this world is being done in order, we just can’t see it

Do you think a man has the choice or propulsive?! 

The first thing that would come into anybody’s mind while reading the title of this topic is that, the word “chameleon” is not that kind of a word that bring peace and inspiration to yourself. Whether physically or mentally, cause simply the chameleon doesn’t look beautiful. But today I won’t talk about the look of the chameleon itself. I will talk about its features.

Think with me, what makes the chameleon survive in its environment, well simply because it has got the ability to disguise. So this means that disguise is a good thing? , it can be changed to any color to whether run away or to prey. So we all agree on changing according to the environment is a good thing.

Now let’s apply this to the human daily life, we sometimes face some kind of hard situations everyday. And sometimes we collide with our principles and beliefs. In such situations we have to change our ethics to get something and it might be the only way to get it. Just as the chameleon. Would it be a problem? , It’s a helpful way to get what we want. So being a chameleon is a good thing actually don’t you think ?!

What I’m trying to say is that we humans have our own traits and features that qualify us to be good people. That’s why we have a brain to think and distinguish what is right and what is wrong. We all would agree that this kind of “ human chameleon” is exist in our life. This kind of people who change their beliefs and principles according to the situation that serve their needs. Those people who will be with you today because they need you, and against you tomorrow because you are useless to them.

We should never be inconstant, we all should stick to our principles and beliefs even if it won’t lead us to what we want. Because once you lose what you believe in and change it according to the situation, you will be  lost inside yourself and you will never find your way back to the real you.

One more thing, before you try to fool someone. Think of yourself as the fooled one, and then decide. 


What do you think would help us to get what we want apart from being an inconstant ?!

When you first look at this picture, what is the first thing comes into your mind?! . The beautiful view of the sea that hits the rocks! . Or the sad, scary skull?!

Actually everything  in the whole world could be seen in many ways. And most of the things are not always what they seem. Sometimes we see the same picture in different ways. And also there are some situations we can’t agree on one opinion regarding them. If you asked your friends about what is the most thing they like on the beach? . One of them is going to say the sea itself. And another one is going to say “ I love walking on the sand” . And the other one will say “ OMG I love the girls there “ .

So it only depends on us. Not on the picture, or the place. We are the only source that gives the meaning and the definition to things, according to our thoughts and our beliefs. On this picture you have just seen up there. Some people are going to see the face of the skull as the main picture. Which is going to reflect their inner thoughts and their beliefs, that they are some kind of gloomy people. They are that type of sad people, who don’t see joyful and happiness in this life. And the other people are going to see the amazing view of the sea that hit the rocks and keep carving them when they very first see this picture.

At the end, Our thoughts and our beliefs always reflect what we see in the physical world. What we believe in, control the way we see the world. We usually see what suit our mind, beliefs and thoughts. If you are an optimistic person, you will see everything beautiful and glamorous. And if you are a pessimist person, you will see everything around you gloomy, joyless.

Do you agree that our thoughts and beliefs reflects the way that we see the world?!

Have you ever dreamed of something you wanted so bad but your dream didn’t come true?!. Have you ever wanted to have or owe something but you couldn’t get it?!. Do things always go the way you want?!. I bet that sometimes you have such a feeling that you are going to get that thing you have been dreaming of and sooner or later you finally get it. Sometimes we dream of something, dream of having it, but unfortunately we don't get it. Sometimes we need something to be happening but at the end, it never happens.

A few days ago, I have read a book called “The secret” and have watched a movie also called “The secret”. What I am going to tell you now is a SECRET as the writer describe it. The main idea of this movie is that everything in this world has an energy. We all sends and receives energies. So now what does this have to do with the law of attraction. Simply here how it works, the more you think about something, the faster it happen. Let that thing you want the most overcome your mind, your thought. And by letting it overcome your thought, you enlarge your sending energy, by thinking of what you want, you make its energy stronger. It’s said that “ like attracts like” .Let’s say that you are thinking of something negative, your negative thoughts are going to bring and attract some other negative thoughts. And if you are thinking of something positive, your thoughts are going to attract some other positive thoughts.

Actually so far, I haven’t tried this law. But I have to admit that sometimes when I want something so bad, and I focus on it. When it overcomes my mind and my thoughts. When nothing else dominates my mind but this issue. It happens to me, it really happens. I guess most of us have had this situation before. As when you feel like you want it, and want it so bad. It happens, but we don’t know when it is going to happen. We have that feeling about I know it is going to happen but I don’t know when. I can tell you that I have used it before without even noticing, and I believe that you have done it too.

What the writer of the book has said is that, if we want to get one of our dreams happen, we have to keep thinking about it. We have to focus on it. And it is not our business how it is going to happen. We just have to ask about something, keep thinking of it and at the end it is going to come true. Cause eventually, thoughts become things. And things are going to draw and define our future. You are a living magnet, attract anything and everything you want in life. All we have to do is, " ASK, BELIEVE, RECEIVE "

Do you believe in the law of attraction?. Have you ever used it?!

This specific kind of people exists in our schools, streets and even in our work place. Actually we can not deny that everywhere we go there is such a boring annoying person who make fun of everyone, anything even of a cat in the street. I guess we all agree and confirm that we sometimes have fun with our friends, families. We make fun of a specific situation that happened and was really funny, I actually drop dead laughing at myself when I do something funny or even when I fall down while doing something. It is a real good thing to laugh, makes us happy and fresh and always up to create. But what I'm talking about here is, those people who are just mocking people for their own pleasure. They mock every single person walking on the street whether it is a funny thing or not. And what I personally hate so much about those "assuming funny" people when they mock and make fun of someone who has a retardation problem. Whether it is a mental problem or physical one. Actually this is a rude thing which is not supposed to be happened by a human.

I call this kind of people "mocking tongues". Because simply they have nothing but a tongue who whip every single person their eyes see. That kind of people don't usually have some friends for a long time, I don't know why. But I assume that they are a bit arrogant and nobody is good enough for them, still wondering though. By mocking someone, you are trying to prove that you are exist but in a rude way. I believe that the point of mocking someone or making fun of him is just to prove to the others that you are EXIST, and you are the best. Trying to prove that at least you don't do such things that the others do.

Everyone has something inside him, maybe many of us haven't found it yet. But this doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. It exists inside you, maybe it is unseen or you haven't discovered it yet. But I believe that one day we all will rediscover ourselves. And simply what is the point of making fun of someone? To laugh?. There are so many ways to laugh. If you really want to laugh, you can just look in the mirror and look at your "funny" face and start making fun of it. No body will blame you, once you do this. You will realize that it is really annoying. At least, someone is sad and upset, just because of you. Because simply nobody will be happy by being mocked.

What would you do if someone tried to mock you?!

I can say that this is the deepest picture I have ever seen. When I first saw it, I felt two strange feelings. The first one made me really happy, that's how love affects the emotion whatever for a human or an animal. And the second feeling brought a grief atmosphere, that how could a wild animal and a human easily understand and love each other, whereas simply most of the people can't even understand each other and not ready to. We are not listening to each other. Actually we don't want to. I believe that we really act this way, trying to prove that we are exist. Trying to convince the others that we are here and we are stronger than anybody else. Whereas which is really sad, that the REAL wildest and the strongest animal understands and feel. That reflects that the strong man doesn't need to prove his strength. Cause simply he is sure that he is strong, then why should he prove to people that he is.

That takes us to another issue, which is understanding doesn't mostly need a good speech, or someone who speaks fluent. Actually not, it just requires "REAL FEELING". If you felt what someone is trying to say, you will easily understand every single word he is trying to say. But if someone is talking to you in a classical old language fluency. It will be a good speech that amaze everybody listening, but you might not understand what is the point if the speech. It didn't touch your heart so you didn't feel it. Therefore, to interact with someone, we don't have to understand what he wants. But feel what he really needs.

The sad part is,, in this picture. The tiger is hugging the man. And we all know that, tigers are wild animals by nature like lions. They are not emotional or friendly like dogs. We can't have them as pets cause simply they are wild. They can't be tamed. But this man has proven to us that we can build a relationship between a human and a wild animal BUT with a human being. Unfortunately there is some kind of people that is really harder than a tiger to build a relationship with. People have become worse than tigers and lions. It is really shame on us that we are still having war between a nation and another one. We have brains, tongues, thoughts to share, good minds to think. But we still have wars and can't understand each other. And we fought the desire of a tiger and turned it from a wild animal into an emotional one. That is because we are "people" so greedy. Want everything and anything, and leave nothing for others. Whereas wild animals only kill to eat, once they are not hungry they don't kill animals. But people kill for MORE. WHICH REALLY SHAME ON US.I actually don't want to stop talking about this issue cause it really tears me apart. It is unfair.

How do you think we can change ourselves for the best?!

Simply just smile. How short this word is but actually it has a deep meaning and a deeper reflection. Imagine with me the two situations. You are walking on the street and somehow you looked at any other person dressed decently and look great but with a gloomy and angry face. Imagine what would your reaction be. Of course you will turn your face to any other person or a thing suddenly. Cause his gloomy face infected you too and you started to put that gloomy face that's why you started looking for another cheerful person. On the other hand, imagine you were walking and by chance you looked at someone who is smiling and cheerful. You will automatically smile and feel like you are happy.

That is the secret that a smile brings the happiness and the optimism to us. And it's said that " smiling is infectious, you catch it like the flue ".

And here is my story, a few days ago I was bored I felt like I do nothing important in my life. And it started to get worse and it became all black to me. But then I realized something , what is the point of being gloomy. What would I gain?. Will it change the problem or solve it?!.,actually the answer was no, nothing would happen to the world whether I'm sad or happy. The days will go on and the sun will keep rising. Since then I decided not to be gloomy ever. And I won't stop smiling even I'm not happy. Like by being frown and sad, it only affects me. It makes me feel worse. But....If I smiled something might happen to the world, to the people themselves. One day I could be that happy and cheerful person that influence any other person by chance, by just a smile. At least when someone look at me on the street will not look away to some other person because I'm not gloomy.

And I realized something. What would I lose if I smiled?!. Is something harmful would happen to me?!. I actually found out that I won't lose a thing. On the contrary, I will gain so much than I imagined. I figured out that people will like me, and will like talk to me. And also could be the reason for someone else to be happy too. And the most important thing is that I will love myself, I don't mean to be selfish but if someone doesn't love himself, how could he expect love from the others. By smiling I will be in a good health clear and positive mind, up to anything good. Think right and logically.

Actually, since then I decided not to frown and always smile. I guess well all deserve it.

Can you fake a smile just not to be rude? Or will show what you really feel?!